Marjorie R. Barlow, Ph.D.

Most of our friends and family know that Paul and I read a lot of books.  Every day, we begin with our daily apple, green tea or coffee, and a delicious reading from many interesting books.  Yes, we read out loud to each other, and sometimes get caught in long discussions that make for a later breakfast.

I like Duane Elgin’s books.  Two of them are, “Promise Ahead” and “Voluntary Simplicity”.  In the first, he describes our evolutionary growth as a human species.  We are near the end of our adolescence and just might grow up in time to save our planet from an evolutionary crash.  He says we could even have an evolutionary bounce!  I like that and want to do my part in making sure we bounce instead of crash.

In Voluntary Simplicity, I like the questions on consumption:

1. Does what I own or buy induce and promote activity, self reliance and involvement, or does it invite passivity and dependence?

2. Are my consumption patterns providing basic satisfaction–or do I buy much that I don’t really need?

3. How tied are my job, my life, and my life style to installment payments, repairs and maintenance, costs, and the expectations of others?

4. Do I consider the impact of my consumption patterns to other people and the whole earth.

Thinking on these things, I came to a nice conclusion: Our life is active, involved, satisfying, and increasingly responsible in a sustainable way for this earth.  Nice to ponder what more we can do to add to sustainable living.

for relationships, (by Harville Hendrix)
Getting The Love You Want
Keeping The Love You Find

for conscientious parents, (by Hendrix and Hunt)
Giving The Love That Heals

for Strengths Coaches:

Positive Psychology Coaching (by Deiner and Dean)

How Full Is Your Bucket? (by Tom Rath)

StrengthsFinder 2.0 (by Tom Rath)

Vital Friends (by Tom Rath)

Authentic Happiness (by Martin Seligman)

Now, Discover Your Strengths (by Donald O. Clifton and M. Buckingham)

for managers:

First, Break All The Rules (by Buckingham and Coffman)

The One Thing You Need To Know (by Marcus Buckingham)

12–The Elements of Great Managing (Wagner and Harter)

Presence (by Peter Senge and others)

Theory U (by Otto Scharmer)

for anyone wanting to organize “stuff” at the office, home, and life:

Getting Things Done (by David Allen)

For personal self growth and goal achievement:

The Attractor Factor (by Joe Vitale)

For women who want to understand feminine psychology:

Goddesses in Everywoman (by Jean Shinoda Bolen)

The Millionth Circle (by Bolen)

Crones Don’t Whine (by Bolen)